My Advise To You

Anonymous asked: Only wondering, don't worry. I support gays <3

why are you anonymous >:( Its not fair I don’t know who you are >.< haha 

Anonymous asked: Are you gay/bi/straight?

I am gay, but whats the matter? We’re all human.

We have those doubts that something isn’t right. We all have those second thoughts about a big choice that effects our future. Some of us frown and break down and get upset. But my advise? Smile through it and laugh, the choice you make now is the choice that is making you happy. No regrets about it. This choice is making you smile? Its right. 

I really hope this blog will help you Katie :D <3 You are always making the right choice, why are you having doubts, but I know you, and you are strong. Stop regretting the choices you’ve made. 

Anonymous asked: wat do u do when evrybody is puttin u down? people keep callin me names like 'emo' and stuf lik that

Well its not really long enough to blog about, but I will still answer. People will always be telling you that you aren’t good or that you look or dress or smell funny. Don’t listen. Easy and short. Don’t listen to them they are just stupid and don’t care about anybody but themselves. Low life, silly, rude people. They don’t know what they are talking about. There is no use in calling people names, it won’t get them anywhere, so just don’t listen.

Anonymous asked: How do you deal with depression? I'm getting it a lot because of some friends/family issues and it's overwhelming because I'm a bit young for all of this to happen.

My answer is just to love everyone who is going to love you. Your family and friend issues, you can overcome if you guys stick together. Love everyone who is will to love you. I know being young and suffering from depression is hard, just be strong. I just posted a blog on how I deal with depression, if you would like to read that it is also on my page :) Take care 

Depression is a serious thing and people joke around with it too much. 

Dealing with it is hard, but you have to over come it. I have dealt with depression for a couple years, now, since my parents have passed. I was losing myself. When I was 14, I had found out an escape. I suddenly liked sharp shiny things. Pain was an easy escape, but it wouldn’t last forever. I thought my world might as well be over. I didn’t realize the impact I made on people. I felt like a no one everywhere I went. Soon after I met a girl, who is currently my bestfriend, and she helped me smile everyday. December of last year I was cut down, at school, at home, anywhere. My best friend had just lost her sister a couple months ago. Her sister was an amazing person, sweet, caring, funny. I loved her. I tried so hard not to break infront of my best friend because of her sister, and I thought maybe if I acted like I didn’t care, maybe it would help. It didn’t. I was a total dick. I said rude, unspeakable things.This only made me feel worse. My uncle stared to hit me more often and I started liking sharp things again. School became difficult and I started to fail EVERYTHING. I knew everything they were teaching, I just couldn’t do the work. Students were rude, and hateful. I couldn’t be there anymore. A couple months later, I dropped out. It was a terrible time for me. I felt like dying, and I always wish I would of. My bestfriend had started to talk to me and tell me that she still loved me and thats all I needed to hear. If my bestfriend would have given up on me and returned the favor of being rude and hateful, I probably would have lost it and wouldn’t be here today. I have never shared this story because I was ashamed of the way I had acted but I am glad I am sharing it. And family problems? Love your family why you have them, not matter what. I don’t care how many times my uncle hits me, I will always love him. 

So the whole lesson to my story is:

-Love your friends; They are more important than the world and will help you get through anything.

-Love your family; it doesn’t matter what they did, if they are doing something wrong constantly, tell them, or tell someone who can solve to problem. Love your family because they might be gone when you open your eyes.

-The sadness wont last forever.

-Be around the ones who make you happy

-Laugh at all the bad things

-Don’t act like something isn’t real; it will break you.

If you smile everyday, things will get better, I promise, but only if you smile. :D 

There isn’t much you need to know. Stay in the back!!!!! But if that is somehow impossible for you this is what you need to do.

-Know where your friends are; they are going to help you when you fall done, and if you work together, you might get out alive.

-Don’t be an ass; Be nice to people. Everyone is going to be pushed, and more than likely into you. Just gently push them away, and keep fending for yourself. Don’t punch, kick, hit, ect. Everyone will be running and going crazy. Its not a rumble, don’t beat people up.

-Make sure your shoes are tied, double knots; You will fall and you don’t have time to tie your shoe!!!!

I have been in many mosh pits before, and I think the best part is the wait. Be in the Wall of Death!! Once you are there, you can go in, or leave. Its pretty easy to survive, but its easier to get killed. Before you go in, know what you are doing.

Anonymous asked: can u blog about how 2 survive a moshpit, i red ur othr 1 nd i liked it

Umm, I guess I can, it wont be very long though 

Warped Tour 2012……

We are all excited to be going to Vans Warped Tour ‘12. 

Maybe its because you go every year, or because you like moshing, or because you like the cheap and free stuff. Or maybe you are going because some of your favorite bands are going. 

This is the Vans Warped Tour survival Guide.

If you are going going to see your favorite bands there, Rule #1 will help you big time.

Vans Warped Tour Rule Number One: Chose only you favorites.

There are over 90 bands that are going to be at warped 2012, and more than likely you wont like all of them, but lets say you did.You will have to narrow it down to at least 3 bands you HAVE to see. Most likely you will not see everyone who is playing, so make a list of at least 3 bands you want to watch. I know you are wanting to see like 60 of them, but face it, you more than likely won’t. If you are lucky you will see all who you want to see. First I would make a list of everyone you like who will be playing:

-After The Burial

-All Time Low

-Amyst

-Bangups

-blessthefall

-Breathe Carolina

-CatchingYourClouds

-Chelsea Grin

-Chunk! No Captain Chunk!

-Dead Sara

-Everytime I Die

-Falling In Reverse

-For Today

-Four Year Strong

-I Fight Dragons

-Mayday Parade

-Memphis May Fire

-Miss May I

-New Found Glory

-Of Mice And Men

-Pierce The Veil

-Sick Of Sarah

-Sleeping With Sirens

-Taking back Sunday

-The Used

-Tonight Alive

-Vampires Everywhere!

-We Are the In Crowd

-We The Kings

-Yellowcard

-You Me At Six

Now after you go through the entire line up and pick out the bands you like, count how many you have. (31) Now if you have over 20, I recommend you narrowing it down, cross out any of them you would like to see live, but it is not a MUST!! Also if you still have to many, cross out any bands you have seen live before. 

New list: 

-All Time Low

-blessthefall

-Breathe Carolina

-Chelsea Grin

-Chunk! No Captain Chunk!

-Dead Sara

-Falling In Reverse

-Mayday Parade

-Memphis May Fire

-Miss May I

-Of Mice And Men

-Pierce The Veil

-Sick Of Sarah

-Sleeping With Sirens

-Taking back Sunday

-Tonight Alive

-Vampires Everywhere!

-Yellowcard

Now count how many you have. (18) Do you have 3? No, of course not. Its okay to have up to 20, because there is a chance you might see them all. Chose 3 bands that you must see.

-All Time Low

-Mayday Parade

-Sleeping With Sirens

Now those are the three bands you MUST see. The other bands you listed (15) are if you have time. (no you probably won’t see all of them) Now make sure when you get there you know who you are going to see and when they play!! You dont want to miss them!! :D

All of this band talk always makes you think of getting merch, which brings us to Rule #2.

Vans Warped Tour Rule Number Two: Merch Tents.

When you are just wandering around, doing nothing, visit Merch Tents!! Merch Tents are the second most important thing to do there(Other then the music). Go to all the Merch Tents you can!!! Even if you don’t like or know the band!! Each Merch Tent will be handing out something free!! So its a great way to get some souvenirs!!!! Be friendly to all the Merch people and actually talk to them. You could learn something about the band you didn’t know, that might make you like them! Also talking to Merch people could help you get you special treatment. This special treatment could lead to meeting the band (first) or even getting you you back stage!! :D

Some merch cost money, but do you really want to bring your cash and stuff it in your pocket? Easy way to lose it or for it to get stolen. You are going to need money, but where would you keep it?

Vans Warped Tour Rule Number Three: What to Bring.

Remember you are going to be getting a TON a free stuff and are going to want to buy some stuff, so you are going to need a bag.

-Bag. I don’t mean a back-pack, or a big suitcase, like an athletics bag, just a light wait string bag. AND NO PURSES! You are going to need to have a bag for water too (I’ll get back to the water thing in a minute). 

-Cash. You will need money, but DO NOT, and I repeat DO NOT put it in your pocket, east way for it to get stolen! Someone could walk by and grab it and walk off, and if something gets stolen, its gone, theres no getting it back, and the Vans Guards wont help get it back, so you have been warned, NOT IN YOUR POCKETS!!!! If you are a girl, the safest place to put your money is in your bra!!!! And if you are a guy, give your money to a friend that is a girl!!!! But by chance you dont have a friend who wears bras, or you are uncomfortable putting your money there, put your money in your bag!!!

-Water. Getting back to the water thing. Get another easy to carry bag and fill it with as many (plastic) water bottles as you can. At least 2 bottles per person who is going with you. One person will carry all of your merch in one bag, and another will carry the water bag. More than likely you will need more than 2 bottles, but there will be refill stations!!!!! :D Make sure you drink plenty of water, you make drink 4 in 10 minutes and think your all good, but keep drinking!!!!!! DONT GET DEHYDRATED!!!! It wont be as fun!!! 

-Change of Clothes. You should bring some extra clothes, so you can change before you leave! It will make the car trip home more pleasant for everyone!!!!

-Germ X. Bathrooms are NASTY and you will need to clean your hands.

-Sunscreen. Cover your body with sunscreen, you will get loads of sun and the burn isn’t pleasant.

-Hat/Sungalsses. You can get a nice pair of shades for 5 dollars there, but you can bring your own. Bring a cheap pair of glasses or a cheap hat, chances are they might break or get stolen, and you dont want that to happen to an expensive pair!!

-Camera. A cheap camera is good, take a few pics, but not a ton, makes the concert less enjoyable.

Vans Warped Tour Rule Number Four: Friends and Moshing.

If you have never been in a mosh pit, stay behind, or be the wall of the pit. If you don’t know what a mosh pit is, it is a circle of people, built by a wall of people. That wall is the ‘Wall Of Death’. Before the ‘beat’ people will go in the middle and do all this crazy shit, like flips and all. And then when they hit the beginning of the song, The Wall Of Death will come and destroy the circle. First time? Stay in the back, moshing can me dangerous. If you do end up being in the pit, watch out for your friends, have their backs. If they fall, pick them up fast!!! Make sure you stick with your friends through the entire thing, they will be your life savers. And don’t be afraid to make friends there!!!!! And if you see me tell me hi!!!!! (July 3rd, Dallas, Texas) 

Vans Warped Tour Rule Number Five: Clothes.

-Hair. Chill out girls, you don’t need to tease your fucking hair, one, it won’t be comfortable, two, it looks terrible in the first place. And don’t worry about your hair extensions. It doesnt matter how good you look, we are all going to be sweating, and look nasty. Just comb your hair and maybe put it up, but it doesnt matter how you look. 

-Tops. Nothing dark!! Maybe a tanktop or a light colored shirt.

-Shorts. Basket ball shorts work great. Don’t wear jeans, especially long jeans, you’ll trip in fall. Nothing too tight, and nothing too short, we dont want to see your ass.

-Shoes. Old pair of converse or vans or sneakers, something along those lines. Nothing new. AND NO! ABSOLUTLY NO! NOT EVEN A THOUGHT!! NO SANDLES!!!!!

-Accessories. You can wear a couple band(bracelets) and maybe a necklace, I do recommend a belt, but not studded!! be careful with how much jewelry you put on, no rings, dangley earrings, if you have gauges be sure you don’t have open hole ears!!!!! If something catches on to your ear IT WILL HURT!!! 

Vans Warped Tour Rule Number Six: Food.

I recommend eating before you go there, and eat light, but enough to hold you over. HEALTHY FOOD!! They will sell food there, like fries, and hot dogs, but I don’t recommend eating. Last year I ate half of a health bar and almost threw up. Stick with loads of water!! Drink lots of water the night before!!

Vans Warped Tour Rule Number Seven: Get There early!!!!!

Gates open at 11? Be there at 9. Simple, 3 hour wait? Boo-hoo. If you can’t wait three hours, you shouldn’t go. Make sure you get lots of rest!!!!!!! 

You have heard my rules of Surviving Warped Tour, now can you live by them? If its your first year, good luck :D I love you all <3 and please…don’t die